washing dishes

a lot of child raising is about washing things, I'm always washing stuff.
I used to wash a lot of diapers, thank Goddess that's over with.
Now I'm washing bodies...well one little body and lots of dishes.
I have been paying rent at Olives in exchange for a place to park my babies on Mondays and Tue.
I was feeling stressed about bringing kids into my woman's pad...I mean I was feeling bad about bringing a 40 year old's responsibility into the home of two twenty year olds.
Turns out they love it and they love my babies!
As my kids mom told me once...20 yos can really appreciate having to clean the house and spend quiet evenings playing with kids.
They like playing with my kids and where else ins my woman gonna find a fellah who will get a vasectomy for her birthday?
We really love each other and she would be offended if I didn't let her help.
It's all the luck of the draw...she could have fallen for a 20 YO with two kids and not had nearlly as pleasant a time.
I still try not to let her wash things.